Entering the New Year: Recovering From Post-Holiday Stress & Emotional Burnout
- Sofia Merigliano
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As we move into the new year, many people expect to feel refreshed, motivated, and ready to “start over.” However, January can often bring something quite different: fatigue, uncertainty, and a sense of let-down after the intensity of the holidays.
If you’re feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, or emotionally flat right now, you’re not behind—you’re human.
The weeks leading up to and through the holidays often require people to hold it together as demands accumulate. Once that wave passes, the body and mind often respond with what psychologists sometimes refer to as a post-holiday burnout.
This blog is an invitation to slow the narrative down and to focus not on “fixing yourself” for the new year, but on recovering.
Why Post-Holiday Stress Shows Up After the Holidays Are Over
Holiday stress doesn’t always disappear when the calendar changes. In fact, for many people, it surfaces more strongly after the holidays end.
Psychologically, this happens because:
Emotional fatigue sets in after weeks of heightened social, financial, and emotional demands
Many people experience burnout after “holding it together” for family, work, or social obligations
The sudden shift back into routine can feel abrupt and dysregulating
The pressure to feel motivated in January can clash with feelings of exhaustion or low mood
According to the Ontario Psychological Association (OPA), holiday stress commonly stems from unrealistic expectations, financial strain, social overload, disrupted routines, and grief or loss. Many people who seek counselling or psychotherapy after the holidays describe feeling emotionally drained, overwhelmed, or disconnected as they return to their everyday lives. Once the distractions end, the nervous system finally has space to register what it’s been carrying.
Common Psychological Experiences in the New Year
Post-holiday stress can look different for everyone, but common experiences include:
Irritability, mood swings, or emotional numbness
Fatigue and low motivation
Anxiety or sadness when routines resume
Changes in sleep or appetite
A sense of shame for not feeling “excited” about the new year
Flipping between motivation and self-criticism
These experiences are often referred to as the “holiday blues”—a temporary state of low mood, stress, or loneliness that tends to ease as routines stabilize. While not a formal diagnosis, it is a very real psychological response.
Reframing the New Year: Intentions Over Resolutions
The start of a new year often comes with pressure to make resolutions to improve, optimize, or reinvent ourselves. For people already feeling depleted, this can add another layer of stress.
Instead of asking “What should I change about myself?”, a more supportive question may be:
“What do I need to regulate?”
Psychology encourages a shift from rigid resolutions to intentions—flexible, values-based goals that respect where you are right now.
Examples:
Intending to rest more rather than forcing productivity
Re-establishing routines slowly instead of all at once
Focusing on emotional regulation rather than self-discipline
Psychology-Informed Ways to Support Yourself Right Now
Drawing from psychological research and guidance from the Ontario Psychological Association, the following strategies can help ease post-holiday stress and support your transition into the new year:
Adjust Expectations
Perfection is a major driver of stress. Let go of the idea that January needs to feel productive or inspiring. “Good enough” is often more sustainable and healthier than ideal.
Re-establish Routines Gently
Disrupted sleep, eating, and movement patterns are common after the holidays. Focus on consistency over intensity when returning to routine.
Set Boundaries Without Guilt
It’s okay to say no, reduce commitments, and create space for yourself. Boundaries are a form of self-care, not selfishness.
Practice Intentional Self-Care
Small, regular acts such as walks, journaling, breathing exercises, moments of mindfulness help regulate the nervous system and rebuild emotional capacity.
Stay Connected in Meaningful Ways
Instead of pushing yourself to stay constantly social, focus on connections that feel supportive and easeful. Low-pressure, meaningful interactions often provide more emotional support than a full social calendar. Even one meaningful check-in can be deeply grounding and restorative.
Seek Support When Needed
If feelings of anxiety, depression, or burnout persist, or begin to interfere with daily life, speaking with a mental health professional can be an important step. Accessing virtual counselling can make support more accessible, especially when leaving home feels difficult during winter months. Support is not a failure — it’s a resource.
A Compassionate Start to the Year
The new year doesn’t have to begin with reinvention. Sometimes, the most meaningful way to start is by acknowledging what you’ve experienced and giving yourself permission to recover.
If this season feels heavy, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to navigate it on your own. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, or struggling to find your footing in the new year, working with a therapist can help you process, reset, and move forward with intention. If you are looking for counselling or psychotherapy in Mississauga, or virtual therapy anywhere in Ontario, our registered psychotherapists are here to support you when you’re ready.
Wishing you a grounded, gentle, and supportive start to the year.
